Retirement and Dogs Part 14

Mason my problem child

The tension in the house was at a all time high. My partner, K, wanted Mason out, and so did GG. I just couldn’t do it. My partner and I were arguing at home, but that wasn’t enough, so she’d call me on her way to work to argue some more. It was crazy. Sure, I could have her find a home for him, but I came to need him. You see, when she decided to go to Afghanistan, I would use Mason as a watch dog. He was probably three years old. Mason did not let anyone walk past the house without barking. The person could be two blocks away and he’d start barking, so it was somewhat comforting to have him at home. I did understand that he was a good watch dog from afar, because as soon as someone saw him they would see this little Shih Tzu with a big mouth. Mason couldn’t leave now, so if K’s intention was for me to do something with him, that backfired on her. I know what you are thinking: why not just find him a good home with kids, and an adult who would be at home all day, or a senior. I don’t know why I was so against it, except that I didn’t see anyone keeping him for long, and he’d end up in a shelter somewhere. We paid a good amount of money for him, plus three couches and French doors to keep him in blocked into the kitchen, and a crate. We are not rich people so the expense of Mason was enormous. GG still had very little interaction with him, but he continued to try to get her to play tag with him. My spouse would watch all kinds of dog training shows and nothing worked. He was untrainable. How did I come to that conclusion? Well, my partner took him to Petsmart for dog training. I didn’t attend, and my partner said he was a embarrassment. Mason wouldn’t follow any commands, and even pooped on the floor. He barked at all the dogs, and was a disruption to the class. Untrainable. She was, in so many words, asked not to bring him back, and maybe he would benefit from one-on-one training. We just couldn’t afford anything else that pertained to Mason. There did come a time when I thought “Mason has to go.” He was costing us a fortune. I was only given the cold shoulder by GG, whenever he came near me. What I mean by “cold shoulder” is that I’d call her, and she’d look at me and turn her head. Again, I couldn’t get rid of him with my partner leaving. What would you have done? I did my best to deal with him and stopped arguing. She was leaving, why should she care? I don’t know how many of you take your dogs to the vet, but it’s expensive. The vet we use cost $300 just for shots for one of them, so that was doubled. The groomer is $160 for the both of them, and there’s no tax deduction for it. I’m telling you this in case any of you are thinking of getting a puppy. I couldn’t believe one dog could do so much damage, not just to our home, but to my relationship with K and GG. The biggest problem was that we were both working, and Mason more or less had to teach himself. He was like a latch key kid on his/her own, while his/her parents were at work. GG didn’t care for him and was happy, being the only dog, so teaching Mason wasn’t one of the things she had any interest in doing. I was in unfamiliar territory because I didn’t have any of these problems with GG. GG learned quickly how to use the weewee pad and not destroy the house. When people came to my home there was no smell. They didn’t know I had a dog until the person saw her. Mason on the other hand had us buying stock in air freshener companies, we were buying so much of the stuff. You think that’s it, not by a long shot. Be safe and look out for part 15 next week.

Author: Unique Things

Retired with dogs is not at all what you would expect. I retired from DoD about 18 months ago. My spouse and I married a year ago and just had our first anniversary. We have two dogs that have honk they are not dogs but rulers of us. Read my blogs to see why I sometimes wish I was still working.

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